Natural Hair Growth Rut Ive Almost Had Enough :( !!!!!!
Just ranting about how I have enough and im probably gonna get a relaxer 
update: after I recorded this I got another weave I didnt want to make any really big decisions with my head so. . . . we s. . .
February 13th, 2010 at 2:48 am
I think that at some stage hair always breaks in my opinion breakage of hair is jus a life thing but when the breakage gets too much thats when u should worry even relaxed hair breaks and i think ur natural hair loooks gooood(im going natural but its takin ages)
February 13th, 2010 at 3:44 am
Don’t get a relaxer! you’ve came a long way. just make sure u clip your ends every 3mths or so. . when u tired. . get it braided give yourself a break.
February 13th, 2010 at 3:57 am
What Ive learnt is relaxer can break your hair if you do not put the time and money into it as well as trim it. . . . it’s no different trust me we have all been there feelin for relaxed hair to relax ourselves lol. By the way I think you would look beautiful with twists or cornrows
February 13th, 2010 at 4:05 am
It may be what you are consuming. . Eating. . What you eat will effect your hair also. . . I just did the big cut last friday and watching you all’s video has really inspiried me!!!
February 13th, 2010 at 4:37 am
If you think your hair is breaking too much now, the worst thing you could do is get a relaxer. I have been there. I was natural years ago, then got bored, and got a relaxer. My hair was beautiful, but soon started breaking and shedding. If you must go that route, consider transitioning to straight hair slowly, by getting a texturizer first. This way straightening will be easier, and going back will be easier. You look great natural, so please consider this option. Good luck.
February 13th, 2010 at 5:24 am
are you sleeping with a silk scarf on your hair at night? you can try i c fantasia gel for a curlier look. just don’t perm your hair!!! EVERYONE goes through the frustration phase when growing their natural hair out for the first time.
February 13th, 2010 at 6:24 am
No it dosnt matter what you put on your hair it matters what you eat and if you use protection before straighten your hair, but if your hair is damaged than you have to straighten your hair only once every twoo weeeks and also the cold weather makes you have spil ends so put somthing on your hair before going out and protection before going to the sun
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February 13th, 2010 at 6:54 am
I truely understand. . . I’m really feel you on this. I’m going to give myself a few more months and I may be back to the perms as well. Do You, Be You, and Have Joy.
February 13th, 2010 at 7:30 am
Of course you have to do what makes u happy in the end. . . but either way perm or natural it is time consuming. . bc when u are perm you have to find the right hairstylist which may cost money and if you are natural you have to take your time and care for it. . . that is why I believe people should not go natural on the hope of a acceptable curl pattern but bc they are happy and love what God has place on their head. . . Overall be encouraged!!!
February 13th, 2010 at 7:56 am
@solarlolax. . . I totally agree with your comment . . . totally !!!!!